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Wednesday, 04 November 2009

  • Another epic e-mail from Appa

    subject Fwd: Your Verizon Wireless Shipment Notification (Order #8***)
    mailed-by gmail.com

    Appa, did you order something from verizon?! I didn't... Is this your work address?

    subject RE: Your Verizon Wireless Shipment Notification (Order #8***)
    mailed-by hotmail.com

    Hi, Silvia,

    Good Morning!
    How are you sweety!
    Thank you for your notification.
    Always, When you have a strange things happen to you,
    let us know like this time.
    Everythings O.K.!
    Actually,I have to explain to you before get the blackberry phone.Sorry ^^..
    If you want same stuff,you have to wait until next year
    May ,then you have a qualify to get the free phone.
    Because my phone has broken,so I have to get the phone right away.very urgently...and free phone...
    Now, I believe you understand what situation I got.
    When are you coming home?
    I miss you...

    Love
    Your Great DADDY!



    o.m.g. I heart Daddy Kim...

Saturday, 12 September 2009

  • The Human Connection (with Jude Law)


    "What have I got? Really? Some money in my pocket, some nice threads, fancy car at my disposal, and I'm single. Yeah... unattached, free as a bird... I don't depend on nobody and nobody depends on me... My life's my own. But I don't have peace of mind. And if you don't have that, you've got nothing. So... what's the answer? That's what I keep asking myself. What's it all about? You know what I mean" --Taken from the movie Alfie..
     
    This morning I indulged myself in watching the movie Alfie played by Jude Law. (Jude Law...what a hottie). I caught the middle of it and quickly picked up on the storyline of Alfie's womanizing lifestyle that ultimately leaves him (spoiler alert) broken and alone in the end.

    Alfie ends the movie with a great revelation and question for himself. What IS it all about? Is our life really our own devoid of our ability to impact others?
    Examples of us thinking our own personal choices don't affect others?
    *the choice of using our degree to work for a company that pays well but isn't life-giving
    *the choice of buying non-fair trade products
    *the choice of not telling your friend that you have an eating disorder
    *the choice of not allowing "interruptions" to happen in our lives
    *the choice of sleeping around and justifying the other person just as "friends with benefits"
    (i realize i'm probably going to get a lot of heat for saying all this)

    No matter how much I think I am my own individual who make certain decisions and choices in life, it isr foolish to think that my decisions are purely isolated from my friends, family, community, and the rest of the world.

    I don't know what that may look like for others but I know if I choose to hide certain parts of myself from my community, it signifies a distrust that prevents me and them from experiencing a greater deeper relationship. On a larger scale if I choose to buy a product that exploits certain lands or people, I am sustaining a system/business that practice injustice. I am connected with the brother living on the street looking out for his next meal. I am connected to the child bonded in slavery making my next trendy t-shirt. I am connected to my friend who took the risk in sharing her deepest wounds. When I with hold my full self, I am stifling and hurting relationships and this world. This is the great human connection.

    I lose opportunities to practice transparency and authenticity that can lead to freedom in creating real genuine relationships, healing, redemption, life-giving choices, and in Alfie's case peace (The list goes on).

    And no, i'm not saying we should carry the weight of always wondering how our personal decisions are going to affect everyone around us. That fosters a humanity to an unhealthy lifestyle and culture of being a people pleaser (which to some degree is already true).

    What's amazing is that I worship a God of grace who does not expect me to have it all together—that if I make unhealthy decisions, there's room for God's love and mercy to press in and heal those areas of brokeness.

    I really have been wrestling with my being/role [insert social/work title here] and haven't reached a "solution" up until this movie and that is that God is a God of grace. Weak? It makes sense in my head. Ha!

    So, what is it all about?

Thursday, 19 March 2009

  • Parkway Speakeasy...don't leave me

    I swear...

    A little piece of me just died. The owners of Parkway Speakeasy Theater are pulling the plug this Sunday, March 22, 2009.

    http://www.parkway-speakeasy.com/

    You've been one of the reasons why I love Oakland... I feel like someone just ripped out my heart, dragged it across shards of glass, and threw it against a wall.

    I know I'm being melodramatic... but this is how distressed i am. WHY?!?!

    Because there's too much to say about how AMAZING this theater was to me, I will sum up my experiences with a haiku as my euology:

    An eclectic crowd

    chilling on couches with beer

    watching cheap movies

    I am thankful to experience you while I could... R.I.P Parkway.

Tuesday, 03 March 2009

  • My gangsta grandma

    The running joke in our family is that our Grandma is like Grandma Madea
    Below is a Gchat conversation with my cousin about my Grandma (halmonee) getting in a car accident:

    Soojin: Oh hunni did you hear about gramma madea?
     me:  no what happened?! is she okay?
    soojinmkim:  she got into a car accident
    me:  :O WHAT?! IS SHE OKAY?
     soojinmkim:  a mini winnebago hit madea in her new hybrid
     me:  When did this jappen?
     soojinmkim:  last week
     me:  what the freka?! whose fault was it?
     soojinmkim:  the homeless man who lived in his trailor
     me:  oh man~ what the heck
     soojinmkim:  he hit her and took off
     me:  so what's going to happen? OMG...and she okay? was it bad?
     soojinmkim:  so of course our gangsta gramma madea followed his ass
     me:  AHAHAHAHa are you serious?
     soojinmkim:  yes girl she followed him and chased him down a dead end street and ran up on him screaming
    holding the door open of his car so he couldnt go NOWHERE
     me:  LOL... omg i hope he didnt hurt her
    soojinmkim:  She's FINE madea is like 80 she dont need to be chasing no hit and run assholes in MAR VISTA
    mar vista is still a little hood
     me:  dang.. so is he going to pay for the accident? dang. halmonee is gangsta.
     soojinmkim:  thank gawd that big auntie was home and it was close. oh.. check this. HE HAS NO INSURANCE and LIVES in his trailor park
     me:  okay.. so what's going to happen then?
     soojinmkim:  he tried to say he was going to his sisters house and some old chinese couple came out
     me:  does halmonee have insurance? what the heck? is he chinese?
     soojinmkim:  and the old man tried to take off again
     me:  oh heck no. dang this is so drama
     soojinmkim:  so madea ran up on him screaming and wouldnt let him close the door to his car  just standing there like. YOU AINT GOING NO WHERE EE-NOM!!!...then big auntie came to the scene and saw madea screaming at him in his face and holding his door like YOU AINT GOING NOWHERE FOOL. IMMA GET YOU SUKKA
    me:  dannng i love halmonee. she's legit.
    soojinmkim:  I know! right
    i was like.. umm madea, you  are like 80 and imma need you to simmer down cause that man you ran up on couldnve had a gun or a knife. times are tough these days and people are crazy
     me:  i know. dang that woman is FEARLESS
     soojinmkim:  Isnt she? i LOVE HER shes fine though. she sitting at home laughing at the situation. she was yelling at him in KONGLISH girl
     me:  aww is she? im glad..
    HAAHAHAHa. omg this is so bad soojin, im like cracking up at work
     soojinmkim:  i can hear her now. WHAT ARE YOUu DOOING??  EE NOM EE GEE NYANG! YOU DDEH RUH my CHA!
    soojinmkim:  madea taught me to be the "I AM STRONG SUPERWOMAN" like when she used to whoop my ass for minor things but she climbed trees to feed us oranges madea is the shit. i dunno ANY other grammas who can survive getting hit by a car in her late seventies deal with the death of her husband and still ride around in style in a hybrid while chasing mf-ers down who disrespect her!
    she's my IDOL sigh

    I love our grandma.

Tuesday, 24 February 2009

  • TRANSNATIONAL FEMINIST STUDIES PROJECT: MILITARISM AND GENDER CLUSTER

    Spread the word. Join the movement.

    March 3 through 5, 2009

    Mills College and the Global Fund for Women are sponsoring the Transnational Feminist Studies Project to stimulate public interest and debates in feminist theory and practice related to militarism, peace, and security, politics and democratization, sexual politics and reproductive rights, and women’s movements internationally. Feminist activists, scholars and members of the Bay Area community will be invited to participate in public outreach programs, community discussion forums, and skill-building exchanges that will bring together activists from key women’s movements around the world.

    The Transnational Feminist Studies Project will be launched during March 3 through March 5th, with a focus on militarism and gender. International scholars, activists and film makers from Africa, Asia and the U.S. will address the challenges posed by the dominance of militarism in the world today through a series of roundtable discussions, panels, film screenings, and working meetings during which the visiting scholars and activists will dialogue on setting feminist agendas for scholarship and activism. The week will culminate in a public film screening of the award-winning film about the Liberian women’s struggle for peace, *Pray the Devil Back to Hell, f*ollowed by a panel discussion with the film’s producer and key activists from Africa’s conflict zones.

    Convener: Dr. Amina Mama, Barbara Lee Distinguished Chair in Women’s Leadership, Mills College

    Co-Hosts:*
    • Dr. Janet L. Holmgren, President, Mills College
    • Ms. Kavita N. Ramdas, President and CEO, Global Fund for Women *

    Honorary Committee:
    • Ms. Charlotte Bunch
    • Professor Angela Davis
    • Congresswoman Barbara Lee
    • Ms. Laurene Powell-Jobs

    PUBLIC EVENTS PROGRAM:

    *Tuesday, March 3, 2009 * * Venue: Lisser Hall*
    6:30-7.00 p.m.
    *Fashioning Resistance: A Cultural Show *
    Performance art piece, presented by Mills students
    Mills students display their ingenuity and creativity in a fashion extravaganza that highlights the pervasiveness of militarism in popular styles and cultures.

    7:00-9:00 p.m.
    *Roundtable Discussion and Public Conversation*
    “Challenging Militarism: Transnational Feminist Activism and Scholarship”

    ‘Global Development and Human Security’
    *Funmi Olonisakin,* Director of the Conflict, Security and Development Group at Kings College, London, author of the book Global Development and Human Security accomplished international scholar and policy activist

    ‘Researching and Documenting the Lives of Women during Armed Conflict’
    *Ruth Ojiambo Ochieng,* Executive Director of ISIS-WICCE, the Kampala-based international feminist network will discuss the use activist-research strategies to document and heal women in the war zones of Northern Uganda and Liberia

    ‘US Bases and Women’s Resistance’
    *You Kyoung Ko*, Anti-militarist activist, Executive Director, Seoul-based National Campaign against Crime by US Troops, discusses the situation in Korea and the faces of US presence in East Asia

    ‘The Global Import of US Militarism’
    Catherine Lutz, Professor, Brown University and author of Homefront: A Military City and the American Twentieth Century, shares thoughts on the local and international dynamics of US militarism and the implications for democratization
    Moderated by Dr. Margo Okazawa-Rey, Professor, Fielding Graduate University and one of the founding members of the International Network of Women Against Militarism

    Thursday, March 5, 2009 Venue: Concert Hall
    Oakland Film Screening *Pray the Devil Back to Hell*, an award-winning documentary about the Liberian Women’s Peace Movement

    6:00 p.m. Welcome
    President Janet Holmgren, Mills College
    Ms. Kavita N. Ramdas, Global Fund for Women
    Representative from Congresswoman Barbara Lee’s Office

    6:30 p.m.—Film Screening: “Pray the Devil Back to Hell”

    8:00 p.m.-8:45 p.m.—Panel Discussion with filmmaker and activists from the Africa region moderated by Dr. Amina Mama:
    Abigail Disney, Producer
    Yasmin Jusu-Sheriff, Human Rights Commissioner, Sierra Leone
    Rose Mensah-Kutin, Regional Director ABANTU ROWA, Ghana

    For more information, see http://www.mills.edu/academics/undergraduate/eths/transnational.php. If you are interested in attending the closed working meeting (not listed here) please contact Margo Okazawa-Rey at mor@sfsu.edu.

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